Scrabble Beta wants to forfeit too quickly

Does anyone using the Scrabble Beta app on the iPod or iPhone find it annoying that you can only NUDGE a player once, then it resorts to asking about forfeiting the next time?

I don't want to win the game by forfeit, I just want to nudge them so they remember.  It used to be 3 times, but now you can only nudge once.  People get busy.  Can't play games all the time.  I don't like winning by default.